Hey, Faggot:
Any advice would be graciously appreciated.
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I got in touch with two experts on your behalf: Marcy Bloom of the Aradia Women’s Health Center in Seattle, and Nancy Jordyce, an Ob/Gyn in private practice in the lovely state of New Mexico.
If it’s a physical problem: “There are surgical procedures, but they’re drastic. Any surgical procedure should be viewed as a last resort,” says Bloom. Regardless, Bloom recommends that, as a first step toward solving the problem, your girlfriend go in for a gynecological assessment, which is where our next guest expert comes in.
Help! I am a 23-year-old bisexual female who is mad about a straight female, 31–my former employer’s daughter. I wrote her a letter confessing my affection and desire, and she called me two days later telling me she was really not interested, not to call her or write her again. I am not convinced she’s totally disinterested. I want to write her again and find out for sure what’s up! Should I? She is so hot! –Mad About Blonde
I’ve been in love with the same lady for five years. We fell in love the moment we met. We’ve always had great sex, never had any problems. We fit together like gloves. Everybody remarks on what a great couple we make. She is now reaching her 30s, and I am reaching my mid-30s.
Are you pressuring her? Yeah, a little bit. But so what? She can’t have it her way all the time. If she doesn’t want what you want–if she doesn’t want you–she needs to cut you loose. Good luck.
