Hey, Faggot:
Hey, FU:
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I have this sneaking feeling that it’s not other guys checking out your boyfriend that bothers you, but your boyfriend’s habit of checkin’ back. Your boyfriend cruising other guys when he’s with you, as opposed to “having a look,” is a very bad sign. But you, since this relationship is new and you want it to work out, blame every gay man in the city for your boyfriend’s wandering eye, which is dumb, dumb, stupid, dumb.
As a 16-year-old queer boy living in a small town, I am very comfortable with my sexuality. I have no guilt about my gayness, am out to friends, and lead a healthy fantasy life. There is one problem: how do I hook up? I can’t find a guy. There seems to be zero guys out there looking for the same thing I am. School is full of fag-hating jocks and mousy computer geeks. I’ve tried to find groups, clubs, etc for meeting guys my age, but there aren’t any in my area.
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