Hey, Faggot:
–Exhausted “Dom”
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Your husband is having trouble making, or maintaining, a distinction between your shared fantasy life and your reality lives. For submission to work, the bottom needs to feel like the top is imposing his or her will only while the SM sex scene is going on. Once it’s over–unless you’re living that glamorous leather lifestyle–it’s over. While the bottom may request a very specific plot–tie me up, whip me, fuck me in the ass–the bottom may not require the top to pretend, when it’s all over, that the entire thing was the top’s idea.
Sucking is less risky than fucking, but it is not risk-free. There have been cases of HIV transmission from “oral sex alone”–I’ve personally known of several. Risk, however, is relative, and in the case of HIV, wholly dependent on one of the persons involved being HIV-positive.
The problem is that after about the fourth orgasm, I am no longer able to ejaculate. I still have an orgasm and my penis somewhat feels like it’s ejaculating, but nothing comes out. Of course, it feels much better to have the orgasm with the ejaculation.
Confidential to Back Up Nut and Fantasy Crazed:
